Men can easily get attracted to women who are very good-looking and with gorgeous bodies. It’s a pretty normal reaction for them because physical attraction is really important in a relationship, both for men and women, whether we all admit it or not. But then falling in love is a different matter. It’s a far cry from lust and mere physical admiration. And this fact definitely makes us curious about personality traits of women that men find irresistible and fall for.
What is it about women that draw men to them? What traits do they have that make men fall in love with them beyond the physical beauty? Well, ladies, take note of some of these traits:
Thoughtful and Sweet
What’s better than being treated like a very special person? There are so many men out there who may even be more handsome and popular, yet a girl chooses to give her attention and caring ways to one simple and ordinary guy. When a man is always thought about and when he feels very much appreciated, wow! Who wouldn’t fall for a woman with these traits?!
Funny
Sense of humor is the new sexy and beautiful. It has become a must and it is included in the list of most liked traits of men in women. In a world where stress, insecurity, depression, self-pity and harshness abound, having a very good sense of humor makes a woman pretty irresistible and a most wanted company of men.
Optimistic and a Doer
Cruelty and disappointments can be bountiful in our world. So having a woman with an optimistic point of view, and who is not afraid to take action herself to help resolve problematic situations, is a blessing and a joy to be with for men.
Sensitive and Smart
A woman who is sensitive not with regards to her feelings, but to those of others, is a very appreciated person. She understands what the other person is going through and is tactful with words and actions. She knows it’s not nice to always rant and nag.
The sensitivity in a woman also includes her cleverness. This makes her not only intelligent inside the four corners of a classroom, but also wise to handle trials, difficulties and challenges in life. Her wit doesn’t make her aggressive, but it enables her to effectively deal with people from all walks of life. There is something in this kind of woman that turns men on and makes her even more beautiful in their eyes.
Good Conversationalist
Every man wants a woman whom he can talk to about anything and everything under the sun, minus the rumors or small, mundane things. Someone who can share thoughts, ideas and many topics which are relevant to the other person. A good conversationalist is certainly included in the most wanted traits of a woman that a man can fall in love with!
Compassionate and Selfless
There is something so endearing about a woman who reaches out to those in need. The selfless acts and the caring ways for people (and even animals) she may not even know speak about her true colors. It’s as if that person has a special gem that makes her a real treasure, wonderful and easy to love. And if she can be kind to people she doesn’t know, what more for a person she cares for? That’s something a serious man wants to find in a woman he would want to keep for life.
Broadminded
A man could fall in love with a woman who is broadminded enough to respect other people’s opinions and characteristics. She can handle criticisms, can learn and move on from personal mistakes. Aside from this, she understands other people’s flaws and weaknesses without feeling superior to them. She seems like a dream come true but she really exists! And when a man finds her, let’s see if he’d let her go!
Independent and Contented
An independent woman is easy to love as she embraces and enjoys her individuality. This type of a person stands on her own two feet, explores her talents and skills, prepares for the future and is very responsible. She is comfortable in her own skin and is not insecure.
Yet this woman knows how to appreciate a person she can spend the rest of her life with. Independent yet eager to have somebody to love. She can be happy both when she’s all alone and when she’s with her someone special, family or friends. A man wants to have this kind of woman in his life.
These are just some of the traits of women that men find irresistible and lovable.
But ladies, you don’t have to try very hard to have those traits. Learn to appreciate yourself first and enjoy being just the way you are. Changing and improving yourself to produce a better you shouldn’t be because of wanting to have a boyfriend or a husband. The reason should be because you respect and love yourself. The ones meant for you will come one day soon, sometimes when you least expect it to happen.
